The Beyond Dictionary

Welcome to The Beyond Dictionary — your naughty but necessary guide to the wild, witty, and wonderfully weird language of the Swinger’s Lifestyle. Whether you’re a seasoned veteran of the lifestyle or just figuring out what the hell a “unicorn” really is (spoiler: it’s not just a mythical horse), this is the place to decode all the cheeky, sexy, and sometimes downright hilarious terms that pop up in playrooms, chat rooms, and hot tubs across the lifestyle scene. Think Urban Dictionary, but with more lube and less judgment. Dive in, learn the lingo, and speak fluent freaky.

Arkansas Knuckleball

Engaging in vaginal sex from behind, then it’s a quick and forceful thrust into the ass, most often occurring as an accident.

Bangover

The “day after” effects of having a sore pussy and other body parts after a night of fucking at a swinger’s party.

Bayou Bullfrog

The act of inserting your balls into a woman’s pussy while you are balls deep in her pussy. The removal of the balls resembles a bullfrog coming out of the mud in the bayou.

Blue Fish

A descriptor for single males involved in the swinging lifestyle, and their acceptance and integration often depend on their approach and adherence to the community’s unspoken rules and expectations. 

Boofing

When you and/or your partner insert drugs into your ass. Insertion is done with a finger or a cock.

Cherry Mash (Beyond Monogamy Podcast Original)

It’s the pussy of a black lady. Nice, beautiful chocolate on the outside and that sweet cherry‑colored pussy on the inside.

Clam Slam

Where a lady is sucking a man’s cock while he’s lying down, then she suddenly jumps up and buries his cock balls deep into her pussy. “She just slammed her clam onto his cock.”

Dopplebanger

Someone you have sex with because they look like someone who you want to have sex with or have had great sex with.

Figging

Peeling a ginger root and inserting it into the anus, which causes a burning/tingling sensation. Used in BDSM when caning or paddling. The recipient either squeezes the butt cheeks and feels the burn or relaxes and takes the full brunt of the cane/paddle.

Firecracker

A sparkle pony who, after partaking of some liquid courage (alcoholic beverage), becomes a hardcore player at a party.

Flappucino (Beyond Monogamy Podcast Original)

It’s the female version of T‑bagging. When a lady puts her pussy lips over another person’s eyes or face.

Fruit Basket

A position where a man’s cock and balls are pulled back between his legs, then closes his legs, exposing his cock and balls, to reveal the fruit basket.

Greek Glue Stick

When having sex with a woman and you pull out to give her a facial, you use your cock as a glue stick and glue her eyes closed with your cum.

Masturwaiting

Happens while you are masturbating and you have to stop to wait for your video to stop buffering.

Moped

A person of the opposite sex who is not attractive, but you want to fuck them, yet you don’t want anyone to know. “I want to fuck them and they are fun to ride, but I don’t want my friends to know that I was on them.”

Pornochio

A person who embellishes their sex life.

Rusty Trombone

A rimjob and a handjob at the same time.

Screwvenir

Something that is taken/stolen as a trophy, such as underwear, bra, earring, that shows that you’ve had sex with that person.

Shrimping

The technique where your partner sucks or licks your toes before, during, or after sex.

Shrink wrapping

The sexual arousal of having sex with a little person (dwarf/midget).

Sinking Submarine (Beyond Monogamy Podcast Original)

When a lady walks up to a group of men at an LS party and asks if they want to do a sinking submarine. When they ask what that is, she replies that she needs all her holes filled, hence plugging all the holes in her submarine. Akin to being airtight.

Skene

The two glands that are situated on both sides of a woman’s urethra. Similar to a man’s prostate. When a woman becomes sexually excited or starts to orgasm, the gland releases a creamy fluid, which helps in lubricating the pussy during sex. The skene is responsible for a woman’s ejaculation/squirting.

Sparkle Pony (Beyond Monogamy Podcast Original)

A lady at a party who gets all dolled up with her hair, make‑up, sexy dress, fuck‑me heels and wears something sparkly. She’s not going to fuck anyone, her only purpose is to be a dick tease all night.

Sploshing

A fetish where a person sits down on a cake and then has it eaten off of their ass. The act of intentional messy play involving food, cake, whipped cream, etc.

Squashing

A dangerous fetish where a large lady sits on a man just for her pleasure.

The Adele

When you put one finger in her pussy and one up her ass and can feel each finger through the thin wall and then you say, “Hello from the other side.”

Unicorn

A single woman who is open to participating in sexual activities with an existing couple, typically a heterosexual couple. The term originates from the perceived rarity of such a person, much like the mythical creature it’s named after. 

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